A prevention project

Someone is bothering, now what?

First of all, keep calm and take it easy, sounds like ok? well, it's not so simple. Yes!, I know that person in f---g Your reputation, life and time, but be patient, one day is going to have a mistake and police will find enough to catch her/him.

Tip #1, save all evidences, people with fear has a natural tendency to delete the files, or emails, keep them!, every one and if your friends receive something, ask them to save it too.

Tip # 2, where to call the police? when you notice a pattern or find a higher level of violence. One email or one comment is not enough.

Tip #3, talk about it with your friends, people support keep you alive.

Tip # 4, don't reply, ignore it, stalker needs to know you are in pain, don't give her/him that pleasure.

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How much time can be necessary to stop your stalker?, sometimes 1 month, sometimes 2 or 3 years, but sooner or later they have a mistake, don't worry!.
  

How can be done the cyber harassment?

There are multiple ways in which harasses can be done, among which have been found are:


-Sending messages of anger, rude, vulgar in a direct way to one or several persons privately or in a group.


-Harassing repeatedly sending messages offensive to a person.


-Cyber talk which consists of harassing through threats of death or highly intimidating.


-Denigrating by sending a false, or with cruel content about a person or group of persons.


-Mascaraed, pretending  being someone else when sending or publishing material that makes evil look a person in places that can cause potential damage to a person or group of persons.


-From outlets or tricks that is carried out by sending or posting material about a person that contains sensitive, private or embarrassing, information including the forwarding of messages or private images.


-Exclusion which are specific actions with the intention to exclude a person or group of people of an event.

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Stalkers are people who are close to the victim, often with positions of power over this as heads, teachers, or couples.

The other way of terrorizing is using the media, usually journalists or bloggers of low profile that does not take into account journalistic ethics of the profession used his power over others to put bread on the table and forget that the information is the most valuable for a society.


Sometimes people contribute with harassment to forward messages, comment, or share news but speaking about it is helping to harassers to achieve their goal: more people humiliating, vilifying, or attacking a victim is much better.

Profile stalkers

Direct stalkers usually are people who are close to the victim, often with positions of power over this as bosses, teachers, professors, or couples.

They are people obsessed with their victims, to establish a relationship of passion-hate which becomes dependent.

They are characterized by grandiose ideas of their own importance and are assumed as the only ones who can punish others, putting aside the laws and the rights of others.

Absorb in unlimited fantasies of success and power. They assume how perfect and able to achieve what nobody has been able to achieve. They desperately seeking public attention.

They see themselves as special and unique,  and have an excessive need to be admired, so they suffer from megalomania.

They tend to be exploiters of the people around, but lack empathy, even if he pretends to have warm feelings for others.

Usually behaviors and arrogant attitudes, manifested through the envy to others, but at the same time, they becomes obsessed with the idea that others envy you.

They are selfish, angry with life, deprived of social prestige, people capable of doing harm to others without limits, with the clear intention to annul his victim, going round the edge it to suicide.

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Experience moments of anxiety and paranoia that can make them even more dangerous.

They are found in high-level social circles, such as professionals, artists, and businessmen. Studies show that men are generally those who wield it, but not only about women, either young, elderly or minority social groups can be found on man.

What is cyber harassment?

Cyber harassment can be defined as the use of electronic or  private information through media which can be email, social networks, blogs, instant messaging, text messages, mobile phones or internet sites in order to explicit defame, harass an individual or group of people, using personal attacks on their person or credibility, which constitutes a Cybercrime.

These offenses may be exercised personally, i.e. a person exerts a direct action on another person or group of persons.

It can be done indirectly, when a person asks others to exert defamatory or humiliating actions on other people, for example through media.

People can be part of this crime, sharing messages, photographs that humiliate or defames a third person, known or not, therefore support violent actions against a person or a group of people. You can see more at

Like the ciberbullyng, the cyber harassment isn't child's play. People come to such a degree of desperation attacks that health can be altered in a chronic way due to stress but persons can comite suicide after years or month of humilliation . So it is that those who wield it should be considered criminals.